The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Habit 1: Be Proactive "Habit 1 is the key to unlocking all the other habits and that's why it comes first. It says, "I am the captain of my life. I can choose my attitude. I'm responsible for my own happiness or unhappiness. I am in the driver's seat of my destiny, not just a passenger." what this quote is trying to say is that you have to be proactive to your self in order to be successful in life you have to do daily rut-ins like do more the 21 days for it can become a habit and change you and be happy and be a different person with manners so just follow all the 7 ways and youll be a great person in life Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind "Control your own destiny or someone else will." (Jack Welch) What this quote is trying to say is if you dont control your own destiny or else someone will by you have to be yourself . o n imagination the ability to envision in your